Bridal Shoes: Flat or Heels? Ivory or Colored?
On her wedding day, the bride usually wears a stunning wedding dress, has her hair perfectly styled, and accessorizes beautifully. But just as important—though unfortunately sometimes overlooked—are bridal shoes. They, too, play a key role in creating the perfect bridal look and can also ensure a comfortable day.
In this blog post, we'll give you tips to help you find the perfect bridal shoes for your wedding.
This article covers the following topics:
Choose bridal shoes that match your dress
It's important to choose wedding shoes that match the style of the wedding dress. If the dress is elegant and classic, the shoes should be equally elegant and classic. However, if the dress has a modern style, the shoes should be equally modern. Even though contrasts can sometimes be exciting, we would generally advise against wearing stilettos to a boho wedding.
Tip: Buy your wedding shoes at the same time as your wedding dress
Many bridal shops also carry shoes. This gives you the chance to choose the perfect shoes to go with your wedding dress right away.
Pay attention to the heel height of your wedding shoes
Another important factor when choosing bridal shoes is the heel height. It’s important to choose a heel height that you feel comfortable in and can wear all day long. If you don’t usually wear high heels or are currently pregnant, it might not be a good idea to experiment with high heels on your wedding day. The only exception: bridal shoes with interchangeable heels.
Tip: The second pair of wedding shoes
If you don't have much experience wearing high heels but would still like to wear them at your wedding, just get two pairs of bridal shoes. You can wear the high heels during the ceremony, for example, and then simply switch to a more comfortable pair afterward. Just make sure the second pair of shoes also matches your bridal look.
Choose comfortable bridal shoes
Regardless of the heel height, you should make sure your shoes are comfortable to wear. After all, there are comfortable and less comfortable styles among both high heels and flats. It’s definitely a good idea to wear your wedding shoes a few times before the wedding to make sure they fit properly and don’t cause blisters.
Tip: Sneakers as bridal shoes
No matter how comfortable your wedding shoes are, even sandals can’t compete with sneakers. But the good news is, the later the evening gets, the more casual your shoes can be. Even if you’re planning a formal wedding, once midnight rolls around, you’re free to switch to Chucks, Superstars, or Vans—or even dash across the dance floor barefoot. If you want to do it sooner: Go for it!—it’s your wedding, after all.
The Color of the Bridal Shoes
Breaking News: Wedding shoes don’t always have to be white! While it’s almost a given for rock-chic brides in leather jackets and biker boots, brides with other styles unfortunately rarely dare to do it: creating a contrast with their wedding shoes. You can achieve this, for example, with shoes in bold colors or by deliberately breaking with convention—for instance, you could pair Dr. Martens with a princess dress.
FAQs About Wedding Shoes:
Can I still wear my wedding shoes after the wedding?
Yes, absolutely! Many bridal shoes can be worn beautifully even after the wedding—for example, at festive occasions, parties, or elegant dinners. Styles in nude, champagne, silver, or soft pastel shades are particularly well-suited for this. If you’d like, you can have white bridal shoes dyed afterward—turning them into true favorites for everyday wear. Pairing these light-colored heels with oversized jeans or stylish everyday skirts is also a great option.
What kinds of bridal shoes are there?
The selection of bridal shoes is huge! From classic pumps to delicate sandals, elegant ballerinas, and stylish bridal sneakers—anything is possible. Bridal boots, Mary Janes, and kitten heels are also very popular. The important thing is that the style and comfort are just right—after all, your wedding shoes will be with you through many emotional and intense hours.
What kind of bridal shoes go well with my wedding dress?
It depends on the style of your dress. Pointed-toe pumps or strappy sandals go wonderfully with classic A-line dresses. Ballet flats or delicate strappy shoes are perfect for vintage and boho dresses. Bridal sneakers pair well with modern, casual looks, such as pantsuits or cool, short dresses. The heel height is also important—it should suit your figure, the dress, and, above all, your comfort.
How do I properly care for my wedding shoes?
You should care for and waterproof leather shoes with a colorless leather conditioner; satin shoes, on the other hand, are best cleaned with a damp cloth or a soft brush. If possible, treat stains immediately—mild cleaning agents and patience usually do the trick. It’s best to buy your shoes at your trusted bridal boutique and ask there directly about the proper care of bridal shoes. Oh, and: Store your shoes in a fabric bag or box to protect them from dust and light!
What kind of bridal shoes are best for a winter or fall wedding?
In the fall, closed-toe shoes with slightly sturdier soles are ideal—such as suede shoes or those with subtle details like gold buckles. In winter, warmer styles are recommended, such as lined ankle boots or stylish bridal boots. Important: Make sure they provide a secure grip, especially in wet or snowy conditions. Many brides also change into a more comfortable pair before dancing—for example, sneakers or soft ballerinas.
Created on
21.4.2023
Updated on
26.6.2025
